Joining a religious commuity has many benefits, many of which were discussed. Many people continue in the religion in which they were born and raised. Many people who were not born into a religion but wish to join a religious community, may have trouble deciding which religion to join and how to apprach that community. If you fit into this category, I hope this article will guide you into making the right choice for you.

Match Your Expectations

If you are considering joining a religion, you most likely have some expectation of beliefs that a religion has. If so, the first step is to match your expectations with the beliefs of the religion. In order to do so, take some time to note the key factors in what you believe or want the religion to believe. You can also identify factors you do not believe and wish to exclude from your search. The more specific your needs, the less religions that may be available to you.

Do a Literature Research

Begin your research by sourcing books on general religions. This could help you focus on a smaller group of religions. A suitable book will describe the origins and evolution of a religion through history.

If possible, you could expand your literature research to include the main text for the religion such as the Bible, Torah, Vedas etc. As the basis for the religious practice is based on the information held within the text, it is important to understand the reasons for each aspect of the religion. However, something to remember is that without guidance, these may be confusing and they don’t usually read like books so reading one may be more appropriate with someone who is educated in the religion.

Speak with Religious Leaders

Make an appointment to talk with a senior member of the religion, preferably someone who is highly experienced and/or educated in the details of the religion. Examples include bishops, priests, preachers, elders, rabbis etc. In some cases, a religion will have someone specific that is responsible for facilitating new people into the religion.

When talking with this person, ask them to explain anything you do not yet understand about the religion.

Ask them the process for joining the religion. This can vary dramatically among religions from simply attending service to multiple years of study.

Ask about the religious community’s expectations of you as a member. How much active participation can you have or will you be required to have. This can vary a great deal but as with many religions, much of the responsibilities may be optional/voluntary.

You may be interested to know the role of the religion in the local community. As many religions are involved in charities and community groups, it may be important to you that your religion takes part in local groups.

As religious communities are typically a source of friendships for many members of religious groups, you may want to know how social the community is and what events facilitate socialising.

Most religions rely on monetary donations or contributions. As you will likely be a contributor, you may want to know how that money is distributed/used to see if you agree with its use.

Sample the Religious Celebration

In many cases, you will be welcome to attend a ceremony such as a sunday service or other celebration of the religion. How a religion is celebrated is important and may be a primary factor in your decision.

Making a Decision

Before making your decision, consider all the information you have found out about each of the religions you were considering. Write down the pros and cons for each and consider how these factors fit into your life and correlate with your beliefs.

Another important thing to consider is the impact of joining a religion on your life, and anyone close to you, in particular, family members. If you are joining a religion, your new belief system may or may not be like those of your family members and friends. Consider if this will have an impact on your life, either positive or negative.

Devote Yourself

Once you have chosen your preferred religion, you should begin the process of joining. When you do this, do it wholeheartedly. Religion is something you must devote yourself to in order to get the most out of it.